John 6:65 And he said, “This is why I told you that no one can come to me unless it is granted him by the Father.”
John 10:16 And I have other sheep that are not of this fold. I must bring them also, and they will listen to my voice. So there will be one flock, one shepherd.
Ephesians 2:8-9 For by grace you have been saved through faith. And this is not your own doing; it is the gift of God,
Titus 3:3-7 For we ourselves were once foolish, disobedient, led astray, slaves to various passions and pleasures, passing our days in malice and envy, hated by others and hating one another. But when the goodness and loving kindness of God our Savior appeared, he saved us, not because of works done by us in righteousness, but according to his own mercy, by the washing of regeneration and renewal of the Holy Spirit, whom he poured out on us richly through Jesus Christ our Savior, so that being justified by his grace we might become heirs according to the hope of eternal life.
James 1:16-18 Do not be deceived, my beloved brothers. Every good gift and every perfect gift is from above, coming down from the Father of lights, with whom there is no variation or shadow due to change. Of his own will he brought us forth by the word of truth, that we should be a kind of first fruits of his creatures.
Raising children we often encourage them to try something on their own. We teach them to walk without us holding onto their hand, we teach them to ride a bike without training wheels, we teach them how to drive so they can drive on their own, we teach them how to eat, use the bathroom, read, work, help others, etc…… While raising them up we encourage their independence from things that hinder their full development or function. We take them from new-born to adulthood and hopefully, we have helped them become a person who knows their limits, knows when to ask for help, and when not to be afraid to take on something new. I am afraid that when we teach this independence without God’s Word they will grow in self-reliance and independence and will harden their hearts, close their eyes, and become deaf to the calling of God. When He calls upon them, will they see the need for salvation and forgiveness of sin? Will they see Jesus Christ as redeemer savior? Will they hear God’s calling, repent, turn away from their sinful nature, and believe? It is so hard for us to understand how God is able to give us free will to choose and, at the same time, draw us to Himself. But draw us He does. He knocks at the door to our heart and soul. He makes Jesus known to us. He reveals His holiness and majesty. He makes us aware of His love. And in all of this, some are drawn to Him and some turn away. There are consequences. There is eternal life for those who are drawn to Him and eternal damnation to those who reject His calling. Independence and free will result in a choice for one or the other.
