Colossians 3:12 Put on then, as God’s chosen ones, holy and beloved, compassionate hearts, kindness, humility, meekness, and patience, bearing with one another and, if one has a complaint against another, forgiving each other; as the Lord has forgiven you, so you also must forgive. And above all these put on love, which binds everything together in perfect harmony.
Ephesians 4:24 and to put on the new self, created after the likeness of God in true righteousness and holiness.
Colossians 3:10 and have put on the new self, which is being renewed in knowledge after the image of its creator.
God has chosen the Christian, and chosen him to be something special in His plan. “Chosen” should be taken both as a comfort and as a destiny to fulfill. Compassionate hearts, kindness, humility, meekness, and patience all have to do with relationships between us and others. We are to intentionally and purposefully put on these attributes of godly living for the single purpose of honoring and glorifying Jesus Christ. We are to govern how we interact and treat others. We do this by being able to distinguish that which is worldly and fleshly reactions and only serve self-interests and self-worth, from that which is honoring and glorifying Jesus Christ.
Humility is the “parent” of both meekness and long-suffering. Meekness shows how humility will effect my actions towards others; I will not dominate, manipulate, or coerce for my own ends, even if I have the power and the ability. Long-suffering shows how humility will effect my reaction towards others; I will not become impatient, short, or filled with resentment towards the weaknesses and sins of others. (Guzik)
We do well to continually check our actions and thoughts towards others by being sensitive to the quiets whispers of the Holy Spirit leading us toward that which honors and glorifies Jesus Christ.