When was the last time you were hurt by words or actions of others? What came to mind? How did you handle it? Retaliation and self justice seem to drive the action we take. Culture, friends and family can all influence the way we react. Think about it, if all you hear is someone telling you your whole life that getting even, take no crap from anyone, don’t let them get away with that, etc… why would we act any different. God gives clear instruction on what to do – turn the other cheek, entrust ourselves to God who judges, enduring hostility against ourselves, do not repay evil for evil. Do not do what appears right within our culture but what is honorable and right in light of Gods word
Matthew 5:37
But I say to you, Do not resist the one who is evil. But if anyone slaps you on the right cheek, turn to him the other also
1Peter 2:22
When he was reviled, he did not revile in return; when he suffered, he did not threaten, but continued entrusting himself to him who judges justly
Hebrews 12:3
Consider him who endured from sinners such hostility against himself, so that you may not grow weary or fainthearted. In your struggle against sin you have not yet resisted to the point of shedding your blood
Romans 12:17
Repay no one evil for evil, but give thought to do what is honorable in the sight of all. If possible, so far as it depends on you, live peaceably with all. Beloved, never avenge yourselves, but leave it to the wrath of God, for it is written, “Vengeance is mine, I will repay, says the Lord.” To the contrary, “if your enemy is hungry, feed him; if he is thirsty, give him something to drink; for by so doing you will heap burning coals on his head.” Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good